Potential Reasons Why Your Girlfriend Is Suddenly Horny

by Tracy Moore

Contrary to age-old, legendary tales of stiff breezes and brushed-against boners, men do not have the monopoly on spontaneously induced horniness. Women, too, “turn horny” or “get a horn on” or “horn it up,” for as many varied and random reasons as men do. Sure, we may generally be too repressed to express it like sports commentators narrating our own horny memoir, but that doesn’t mean we are immune to the horn-inducing moments of life.

Still, it appears to puzzle men when they witness a woman copping to her own horn identity. On one forum, a man said his girlfriend went from wanting sex a couple times a week during their 1.5 year relationship to wanting to bang “ALL THE TIME.” He said he wasn’t complaining, but it “makes me WTF though.”

Another man took to Yahoo! Answers, man’s definitive source for horny questions, to ask “Why is my girlfriend so horny all of the sudden?” Apparently, a month before when they had ample alone time, she wasn’tinterested in sex. But now that he’s back at college for the semester and “super tired and stressed and not in the mood,” every day she “literally begs me for sex.” Could she be cheating, he wonders?

A commenter tries to explain it to him: “No she’s just at exact stage and age where girls get really horny.” Not true! No! There is no “exact stage and age” of prime horniness. It can strike at any time to any woman, and the peak-sexual-prime thing for women is bullshit. (More on this later).

Here’s a sampling of potential reasons:

You Did Something

You could’ve put on that one shirt she likes and rolled up the sleeves to expose your forearms. You could’ve run your hands through your hair, softened your eyes when you looked at her, been kind to someone, or, hell, simply handled some insane traffic in a commandingly smooth way. It could be anything related to a movement, a gesture, or an act of service of some kind that was desirable, or something you had no idea makes her splash.

Maybe you took care of something in an adult, caring way that anticipated her needs without having to be reminded, nagged, scolded or ignored. You picked up the dry cleaning on your own; you restocked the fridge. Now you’ve been paid back in horniness.

You Said Something

There are tons of guides on sexy things to say to women, but they’re mostly paint-by-numbers roundups of sex things that are meant to sound sexy. That in and of itself might not be sexy for your woman, so get to know her before dropping some line about her eyes, her ass or her general fuckability. That said, if your lady loves it when you are so moved by how lovely she looks that you can’t help but say it, never hold back, will ya?

Still, things a man can also say to suddenly make a lass horny may have nothing to do with sex but are titillating in other ways. Maybe you said some really insightful things about the show Gilmore Girls, or used the best Keanu Reeves line from Something’s Gotta Give, “How great is it that I’m not intimidated by your brilliance?”

Maybe you noticed something terrible or sexist and mentioned it all on your own, because you are intelligent and not threatened. Your reward? Horniness.

You Stopped Pestering Her for Sex

When men complain about not getting any, often they are turning every physical interaction into a potentially sexy one. It’s not that this can’t make women horny — it can. It’s just that if you would just leave her alone long enough to get horny on her own sometimes, she’d get horny enough to cross the living room and come over to you and initiate. Your gift: horny time.

She’s Reached Point Horny in Her Menstrual Cycle

It varies for every woman, but most women have a Point Horny in their menstrual cycle. Sometimes it’s before they ovulate. Sometimes it’s when they ovulate. Sometimes it’s after they ovulate. Sometimes it’s directly when they’re raggin’. Sometimes it’s just after. It’s your job to pay attention to when the horniness strikes in relation to her flow. For your emotional labor, you’ll receive horniness.

She Went Off Hormonal Contraception

Birth control, the kind with hormones in it, can wreak havoc on a woman’s libido because it ups the levels of progesterone in a woman’s body, which is linked to lower desire. As a result, when some women go off it, holy smokes in the loins.

That happened to a woman who wrote to Dan Savage recently because she wanted to suddenly fuck everything that moves, and many things that don’t, once she ditched the HC. An expert offered a few reasons why: 1) She may have been on some form of contraception so long she didn’t know her normal sex vibes anymore, and 2) that progesterone business…

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https://melmagazine.com/potential-reasons-why-your-girlfriend-is-suddenly-horny-f0312a5eafb2
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