How Long Is Right Now?

As long as it took you to read that headline. Or shorter. Or it might not exist at all. By Shayla Love Something remarkable will happen today when the clock ticks from 11:59 to 12:00 AM. In an instant, 2019, once all-encompassing, will recede into the past, and 2020, previously futuristic and far away, will step in to take its place. Take a moment to mull that over. How does now unstick itself and become the past, and when does the future morph into the present? How do these states transition, one into another, so seamlessly? How long is right now? On a holiday … Continue reading How Long Is Right Now?

I Masturbated Every Day For A Month And Before You Say Anything, It Was Actually Really Powerful

Masturbating hasn’t always been easy for me. In fact, for several years, it was impossible due to how painful it was thanks to my endometriosis and pelvic floor dysfunction. But after years of work, I got to a place where I could do it without as much pain. So I challenged myself to do it for thirty days straight. by Lara Parker Hi, my name is Lara, and masturbating hasn’t always been easy for me. In fact, for several years, masturbating was impossible due to how much pain it caused me thanks to my vaginismus, vulvodynia, and endometriosis. Nothing could … Continue reading I Masturbated Every Day For A Month And Before You Say Anything, It Was Actually Really Powerful

Why Meeting Multiple Narcissists, Sociopaths and Psychopaths Is More Common Than You Think

By Shahida Arabi, Bestselling Author One of the many ways society gaslights survivors of narcissists, sociopaths, or psychopaths is by telling victims who’ve encountered multiple predators that there must be some sort of mistake. Surely, it isn’t possible to meet and be victimized so many toxic people, those without empathy or even worse, without a conscience? Aren’t psychopaths and sociopaths supposed to be rare? There is usually an implication that if a survivor has been victimized many times, there must be something wrong with them. Nothing could be further from the truth. Here are the most common reasons why you may … Continue reading Why Meeting Multiple Narcissists, Sociopaths and Psychopaths Is More Common Than You Think