She’ll Text Me, She’ll Text Me Not
ILLUSTRATION BY DANIEL FISHEL The science of waiting in modern courtship. BY AZIZ ANSARI & ERIC KLINENBERG Afew years ago there was a woman in my life—let’s call her Tanya—and we had hooked up one night in Los Angeles. We’d both attended a birthday party, and when things were winding down, she offered to drop me off at home. We had been chatting and flirting a little the whole night, so I asked her to come in for a drink. At the time, I was subletting a pretty nice house up in the Hollywood Hills. It was kind of like … Continue reading She’ll Text Me, She’ll Text Me Not